I learned that anger is a secondary emotion (thanks to
training for pastoral counseling, and parent and marriage communication). Anger
is preceded and triggered by another emotion, which must be addressed in order
to deal with the anger. As I have observed the extraordinary anger in this
election cycle, I have pondered what emotions might be triggering it and have
concluded that very often it is fear (from both left and right).
In my pastoral career I have often passed on as a life axiom
that when we make decisions based on fear, we almost always make the wrong
choice. 1 John 4:18 says, “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts
out fear,” which suggests to me that the opposite of fear is not courage but
love. A mother does not run into traffic to snatch her child from in front of a
speeding car because she is brave but because she loves the child. So to keep
from making a bad decision based on fear, I have long suggested to people they
consider how to decide based on love.
Through this election season, I have purposely refrained
from indicating for whom I am voting or recommending any candidate. Rather, I
have tried to wrestle with how what I have gained from Scripture over the years
informs the way I do my thinking and pass that on with a hope it will help
others think more biblically and deeply. So I’m still not going to endorse a
candidate, but I will suggest that when you sense fear in the choices you must
make, consider how love can supplant fear as you decide how you will vote.
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